#  Pre-elder abuse

‘Pre-elder abuse is the high-risk state of relational erosion where low-level coercive behaviour and boundary testing begin to compromise an older adult’s financial independence. It is the ‘asymptomatic’ precursor to formal exploitation, often hiding behind a borrower’s unconscious immaturity and the lender’s fear of family conflict.’

- **Usage**: The early siphoning of funds through unpaid loans is a clear indicator of pre-elder abuse: it is the sunburn that, if left unmanaged, metastasises into a relational cancer.
- **See also**: Inheritance Impatience, Financial Grooming, Unbelievable Regressions, The Great Wealth Transfer.

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